How to Navigate Co-Parenting During the Summer Months
Summer should be a time for fun, rest, and family memories—but for co-parents, it can also bring stress and confusion if schedules and expectations aren’t clearly defined. Whether you’re planning vacations, adjusting to new routines, or just trying to keep things peaceful, having a solid summer parenting plan is key.
1. Plan Ahead, Together
Start the conversation early. Sit down (or use a co-parenting app) to map out:
Vacation dates
Summer camps or child care
Family visits or special events
The more proactive you are, the fewer surprises there will be—and fewer chances for conflict.
2. Review Your Custody Agreement
Many custody plans include specific summer arrangements, like alternating weeks or designated travel dates. Others require written notice or consent before taking your child on an extended trip. Double-check your agreement and make sure both parents are on the same page.
3. Prioritize Your Child’s Experience
Summer is about freedom and fun for kids. Focus on what will create happy, stress-free memories for them—not just what’s convenient for you. Encourage your child to enjoy their time with both parents without guilt or pressure.
4. Stay Flexible (Within Reason)
Life happens—plans change, flights get delayed, and kids get sick. If both parents commit to being reasonable and cooperative, the entire summer can run more smoothly. Flexibility doesn’t mean giving up boundaries—it means working together when things come up.
5. Use Tools That Help Communication
If direct communication is difficult, apps like OurFamilyWizard, TalkingParents, or even shared Google calendars can keep things organized and documented. Clear records help avoid misunderstandings and keep things civil.
Need Legal Help Adjusting Summer Schedules?
If you and your co-parent can’t agree on summer custody arrangements, or if you want to update your custody order to better reflect seasonal changes, North Bay Family Law can help.
Visit northbayfamilylaw.com to schedule a consultation.